Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Never Forgotten

January 27.  It is a day that will always have meaning to us, no matter how we wish it didn't.  Two years ago we lost one of our closest friends, Tyler Palmer, to a tragic ski accident. He meant so much to so many, it is still hard to believe that he is not with us.  Tyler did a lot of charity work, including several trips to Haiti with Engineers Without Borders so the events of the last few weeks have made me think of him that much more. Tyler introduced me to my wife Christa over ten years ago and for that I am forever grateful.  I said this last year but it is as appropriate as ever: In honor of him go enjoy the outdoors, make a conscious effort to do something that helps our planet, and give someone a big heartfelt hug. We love you Tyler.

I wanted to write that post earlier today, but we ended up spending most of the day at UCSF trying to get to the bottom of a new issue that is bothering Carly.  In the night she started grunting a lot and that has continued all day.  She seems to be having abdominal pain, had some blood in her stool and started throwing up later in the day.  After a day of tests we were sent home, only to have to return to the emergency room a little while ago as Carly was not improving.  I am writing from our small room in the emergency department now, where we are likely to spend the night as there are few rooms to spare on the hospital floor.  Carly is resting a bit now for the first time today, and we are hoping that some of the tests they are running will help shed some light on her most recent issue.

Love, Brad

15 comments:

bob said...

hi brad -- i share your thoughts tonight. hope you all find some rest and peace.

NicciN said...

Much love for Tyler and for all 3 of you. I hope you get answers soon.

Jane said...

missing tyler too...and sending healing love to carly.
Love, Jane

Heather and Seth said...

Sending love and big hugs to all 3 of you, hoping that they can solve this mystery quickly and get back to healing!

Gal said...

Thinking of you guys up on the big windy hill and sending big love to blow in, in the breeze.

T-Rex said...

thanks for writing that, brad! i was thinking of tyler yesterday and everyone who loved him so dearly and sending out a lot of love. i hope carly's issue gets resolved quickly and you get back home! xoxo

JerseyGirl said...

Thinking of Tyler and honoring his memory-although I did not know him personally I heard amazing things about him. Hoping for answers fast as to what's bothering carly. Sending strength and love your way. ((HUGS))

susan said...

Missing Tyler myself. Think of him often in Tahoe and especially yesterday and this week. I hope you get back home soon, wishing you weren't there, and sending you all hugs!

Unknown said...

I've been thinking of Tyler too, especially since last week was National Tele Week. Thinking of him shining lots of positive light down on Haiti and Carly. big heartfelt hugs to all of you.

Anonymous said...

Big hug to you guys from me and Tyler. Love, Kellie

Anonymous said...

Hi Brad - So sorry you're back in the hospital. i'm sending all my love and positive vibes to Carly and to her daddy and mommy as well.

-wolfgang norton

Marybeth said...

Sending love and healing thoughts to you and hoping for answers as to what is bothering Carly.

Mindy said...

Ramping up the love, well wishing and prayers. And know that today we are going to gather some items to send with some doctors from our town to take Haiti with them. Will send an extra (cute) stuffed animal in Carly's honor.

savannah said...

Hoping Carly is feeling better - thinking of you all and Tyler!
Love, Savannah

TylerP said...

Brad...Thanks for your heartfelt thoughts about my son Tyler. We fired up a grid tied net metered PV system in our yard on Jan 27 honoring his memory...I miss him so much but try to stay positive thinking by trying to follow in his footsteps as best I can.
Hoping and praying things are slowly but surely going to get better for Carly Grace and her loving parents in 2010...:-)...