Saturday, April 4, 2009

A Note From Mom

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I believe in the power of love, prayer and positivity. Yesterday we could feel it whipping through the hills UCSF sits atop. Brad and I were calling it wind power, and it came from you all across the country and different corners of this beautiful earth bringing with it such strength and love. It was blowing hard all day yesterday and the day before, but today has been replaced with a calm breeze.

Carly was strong and steady through the entire 14 hour surgery. Dr. Auguste (Dr. Gupta's very able young partner) said it was like a new tumor and a new brain compared to what they encountered on October 1st. The tumor just came right out in big pieces with minimal bleeding. It was very easy to separate from her surrounding brain which had become more firm and resilient over the past 6 months. At the end of the long procedure, Dr. Auguste and Dr. Gupta felt they had removed all of the tumor. Dr. Auguste was cautiously exuberant, Dr. Gupta a more serious version of pleased.

Dr. Gupta reminded us that Carly is not out of the woods yet. Her brain was heavily manipulated and needs to heal. Her pituitary gland was enveloped by the tumor and in the end could not be saved. Over the next few days we will be working closely with the endocrine team to work out her regimen of medications to replace pituitary function. This can be successfully managed.

Carly is scheduled for an MRI this morning, and we are hopeful the images will verify that the entire tumor has been removed. I cannot explain how I feel this morning, too many emotions. I am joyful, mixed with caution. I am incredibly grateful for all your support and love and humbled by the number of people little Carly has touched. We all thank you with our brimming full hearts.

This is a new beginning for Carly and a new year for Brad. Brad said this is the best birthday present he could have imagined.

Much love,
Christa

36 comments:

bridget keenan mcelroy said...

I challenge anyone to read your note without sheding tears. Good tears.
Christa I'm sure everyone is reading your note with great joy. Don't worry - the love and prayers for Carly will continue. You and Brad are an amazing young couple. Carly is a lucky little girl.
Speedy recovery to you all.
Love
Bridget McElroy

NicciN said...

Happy Birthday Brad! I am so glad that you got the best birthday present.

Yesterday was am amazing day of love and positive energy throughout the surgery. I know it will continue through the recovery and healing.

I am so grateful to the medical team as well as all of the people everywhere sending love, prayers, and supporting my sister, Brad, and Carly and all of us.

Anonymous said...

This really is the greatest news. Last night's final post filled us with joy and hope and as I closed me eyes to sleep I was comforted by the thought of your relief and your new beginning. Happy Birthday Brad! You three are inspiring and I will continue to send my love, thoughts and prayers for Carly's speedy healing from all of this.

MUCH LOVE,
Keith

Heather said...

Confirmed...tears. We love you guys so much..WIND POWER!

Heather said...

And of course, HAPPY BIRTHDAY BRAD!!!!!

Katy Leigh said...

we are so happy to read this news this morning! happy birthday to you brad and continued blessings of love and healing to you christa and to the best lil' fighter ms. carly grace.

love,

katy leigh & freddy v.

Sheila said...

Christa -- reading your words overwhelmed me with joy and relief. Besides sending prayers and love, we have also all been learning from you and Brad what it looks like to meet life's greatest challenges with stength, grace, and hope. You two are an awesome team and absolutely amazing parents. We have many people here who are always thinking about you and sending love and positive healing vibes to cutie Carly. Happy birthday Brad -- what a wonderful gift!
lots and lots of love,
sheila

Unknown said...

We are so happy for you guys. Yeah Carly! Way to be tough. Happy birthday, Brad.
Hugs- Nikkie and Ryan

Unknown said...

dear Christa, Brad & sweet strong Carly,
Like you, we are humbled by and deeply grateful for this powerful little miracle.
Sending love from the East Bay,
Meghan, Matt, Connor, Lucy, and Piper O'Leary Herreras

Anonymous said...

So glad to hear it went well! Carly's one tough cookie.
Happy Birthday Brad!

Kevin&Karen

Earl said...

Happy Birthday, Brad!! I share Sheila's belief that this has been a reciprocal experience. I have been touched and grown in ways unimagined. I'm going to dry my tears and call my Mom, she always asks about you three!

mayav said...

Happy birthday Brad! What a joyous day and one to celebrate. I've been thinking of Carly all night. Please know that the thoughts and prayers will not end now that the surgery is over. I will continue to send positive thoughts your way through the healing process and beyond.
Love, Maya

Mindy said...

(Oh yes, wiping tears so I can see to write.) The power of positivity is real, and it whipped it's way to you all and made a b-line to Carly. We should thank you for the tone you set and for letting all of us invision only the best for Carly. Thank you for bringing all of us together and for sharing that wonderful post.
Happy Birthday, Brad! Go jump on your bed for a bit today!

Becca and Brian said...

what an incredible journey this has been and continues to be. i hope you know how incredible you both are - i am sure carly know, she is one lucky little girl to have parents like you.

thank you for the updates - its been a teary eyed 24 hours, but we are so so so pleased to hear this result, and know theres progress and more to come...

happy birthday brad

becca and brian

Jen Wagner said...

Wow. I am overjoyed, and yes, a little tearful. This good news has been way too long coming! There is no doubt that your ability to stay positive through such difficult circumstances has been transformative. You are truly inspirational.

Happy Birthday, Brad.

The Hunts said...

I can feel your emotion. We continue to pray for Carly's recovery and strength to you and Brad. You are great parents for this beautiful girl

Rob

Anonymous said...

A special prayer for you from Douglas Lake. I am at the airport to get your update, very nice news to hear.
Love,
Kay Springer

Michele said...

So glad that you kept us all in the loop yesterday and today. Many positive thought are still coming you're way

Love
Michele

Sarah said...

this is wonderful!! what a tough cookie carly is! and you guys wow... i know where she gets it from. love you 3 and happy birthday brad!

love sarah

Jennie said...

With Carly's strength, the doctors determination and the power of positivity, we knew it would all work together to get to this point! Sending ((HUGS)) from the East Coast, and Happy Birthday, Brad!! Jennie & Jimmy

JerseyGirl said...

Wonderful news about Carly! Continuing to send love and healing vibes from the east coast. Thanks for all the updates. Happy Birthday, Brad!
((HUGS))
Kristina and Andy

Michele said...

I forgot earlier...Happy birthday Brad.
Love,
The Rebbecks

hinder90 said...

The change of this blog to "The Road to Recovery" says it all. I feel so much joy for you both and all of your family to be at this point. In our hearts we have never wavered from our belief that "Carly is going to get through this- she is going to be OK." We will be with you for the road ahead and are already looking forward to when you three can go back home.

Happy Birthday Brad!

Much Love,
Matt and Cathy

Christine Rimer said...

Oh gosh, what a wonderful post to read. Our prayers and good thoughts continue to flow to you.

sseligman said...

Brad, I wanted to let you know that your cousins in Indiana have been following Carly's journey. We were so happy to hear that the surgery went well and we wish you all continued strength through the recovery period. Carly is a lucky little girl to have such strong and loving parents.
PS Happy Birthday, Brad.

Marybeth said...

I am so thrilled and relieved to hear that Carly came though with such flying colors. You are an amazing family. Happy birthday Brad! All of Matt & my love to you all as she continues to heal and grow stronger.

Lani said...

what a birthday gift indeed. i too can't stop crying tears of happiness. hearing your voice yesterday christa was just amazing. its been quite a journey and you 2 have proven time and time again how amazing you are- it shows in the love that has spread around the world and blown in your direction when carly needed it most. I know you have a battle ahead, but this time it will be filled with carly's laughter and happiness as she grows bigger and stronger every second.
thank you both for your ability to give even when you are in the deepest trenches.
sending you love & light
Lani & Chris

Beth said...

Yes! the power of prayer, positive healing thoughts and love can create miracles! We are all overwhelmed, teary-eyed and thrilled for the 3 of you! And kudos to Dr Gupta and his surgical team, who were also in our prayers.
Love the picture of Carly with her cuddly doll. I hope she felt the love that little doll held for her from all of us.
We will continue our prayers throughout Carly's post-op and rehabilitation. God bless....XO
Love
Beth and Carly's E.C. groupies :)
PS Happy B-Day Brad... and what a gift!

Anonymous said...

we love you all so much and I'm so happy to hear it all went well.

Unknown said...

Tears... check. What amazing news, the best I've heard in a long, long time. I've been smiling since last night. The three of you are an inspiration to the words hope and strength and inspiration. Good times around the bend... obviously.

Love, Kim

Gal said...

Such wonderful news! Happy new day for Carly, happy birthday to Brad, and happy all things ahead for all of you.

Anonymous said...

The three of you are an inspiration to all of us. Continued love and healing energy is being sent to Carly. What an amazing girl she is!!

Love, Sally

Happy Birthday Brad!

Anonymous said...

:-)

Anonymous said...

Christa, Brad,
So glad to hear the latest news. A terrific BD gift indeed! Best wishes,
Dick

Terry said...

Way to go Carly!! With such indomitable strength for such a little person, you are going to be a force to be reckoned with. Happy Birthday, Brad!

karen said...

I'm still beaming over this wonderful news and cannot stop smiling!