Monday, November 3, 2008

Roller Coaster Of Love

Today was one of those days when you realize that the path we are on is a roller coaster ride full of highs and lows. Carly's head is very swollen again so she had an ultrasound to check on her progress. They found that the ventricles in her brain are more swollen than last time, indicating that she may have hydrocephalus. Typically a person continually produces cerebral spinal fluid (CSF) which is absorbed back into the body at the same rate so there is a fresh supply at all times. When someone has hydrocephalus their body does not absorb the CSF as quickly as it is produced which results in an excess amount of fluid in the brain. The treatment for this is the insertion of a shunt, which is a tube that runs from the brain to the abdomen with a one way valve that allows the excess CSF to be drained. The bad news is that when shunts are inserted in kids under age three it typically means that they will need to have a shunt for life, as it causes their biological means of absorbing CSF to stop developing. While this is a problem that we obviously need to address for Carly, we also want to avoid locking her into a future that can possibly be avoided.

Dr. Gupta gave us the option of either inserting a shunt or performing a second "tap and wrap" (drain and bandage) tomorrow afternoon. He doesn't feel that another round of tapping will be any danger to Carly, but he isn't certain it will be effective either. We have decided to try it anyway and will be directing all of our energy to trying to help Carly heal this critical brain function. Carly will most likely have another ultrasound on Friday to evaluate the size of her ventricles and decide if a shunt in unavoidable or not. Please send all of your prayers and energy to this healing.

Love, Brad

15 comments:

NicciN said...

Love you so much my little one.

Anonymous said...

I'm sending tons and tons of good thoughts your way.

love, abbey

Anonymous said...

You are in all our thoughts... Love, Cécile Cornillon

Anonymous said...

absolutely praying for you and envisioning a healthy future for your beautiful little girl.
LOTS OF LOVE,
Sheila

Unknown said...

Sending you good thoughts from Florida to my favorite little niece.

Anonymous said...

Praying for all you guys, and I'm not even the praying sort. Hoping for the best.

Anonymous said...

I'm so glad I checked the bog today! I'll be thinking of you all and sending healthy brain prayers Carly's way. I sent an email out to my peeps who have been very touched by Carly as well.

Love,

Susan

Sarah said...

thinking of carly everyday! hang in there cutie!
lots of love
sarah and matt

Sarah said...

thinking of carly everyday! hang in there cutie!
lots of love
sarah and matt

Shuman said...

hey carly. be strong tomorrow. mom and dad are doing everything they can to get you better. lots of love. shuman

Anonymous said...

Still praying for Baby Carly (as Layla and Chloe call her). So are countless others. We love you all and LOVE seeing pictures of Carly.
The world is a more positive place today and I hope Carly is soaking it all up!

Unknown said...

All my love and energy headed to you today, little c. Big hugs to three of my favorite people. You show that roller coaster who's boss!! :)

Kara Miller-Ketterer said...

I will continue prayer for little Carly. God hears us and for whatever reason, it seems almost that is a test of patience and faith. I pray and exert my thinking that Carly's brain will again be healthy. You are great parents.
Love,
Kara

Unknown said...

Thinking of all three of you! Sending all my love and positive thoughts from nyc.
hugs
julia

Unknown said...

Her new pink hat is fabulous..she is rockin in it :)
love it
julia