Monday, September 22, 2008

The Plan

We just finished our meeting with Dr. Gupta, the neurosurgeon who is leading Carly's medical team. With the diagnosis known the meeting did not bring any surprises but discussing the well-being of the love of your life is never easy.

The next step in the plan for Carly is surgical removal of the tumor. There are many things about Carly's case that they call "challenging" but Carly is no ordinary baby. Due to the size, shape, and location of the tumor the surgeons will approach it through the right lobe of her brain. They will need to cut a window in the lobe to provide visibility of the tumor, and a scope will be used for the operation. They hope to be able to completely remove the tumor surgically. Their ability to do so will depend on how the tumor adheres to adjoining tissue, particularly the hypothalamus. If for some reason it does not peel easily, some tumor will be left behind and monitored. It could later be treated with radiation, but ideally not before Carly is three. The best scenario is successful removal of 100% of the tumor with no damage to surrounding tissue. There are a wide range of outcomes that we discussed with the doctor, but the only one that we expect is the best case.

The surgery will be scheduled for either October 1 or 8, with October 1 being the most likely date. We have until tomorrow to decide and we will see if we have strong feeling for one date over the other. The surgery will require a full day and will take place at UCSF, the same facility that has been handling Carly's care from the outset. Typical recovery time in the hospital is one to four weeks depending on many variables.

Here is a photo of Carly on one of her daily healing walks. These walks together with the support that we have received from our family and friends have been incredibly uplifting. Carly has an amazing group of people on her side, and with all of you behind her she will get through this. We love you all.

Love,

Brad

13 comments:

NicciN said...

Glad to know that there is a plan. We will add our prayers and healing energy for the best scenario to yours. Much love to you all.

Anonymous said...

You and your family are in my prayers, I hope everything goes successfully for Carly.

Michele said...

Brad,

Thanks for taking the time to keep us so up-to-date.

Much love,
Michele

Unknown said...

I'm glad the plan is coming together... best of luck in the weeks ahead! -Russ

Anonymous said...

Sounds like you have a great team on your side, both medically and personally!! Carly and your family are never far from our thoughts.

Jen and Tim Stull

Claudia Campos said...

Dear Brad. We trust God is the one in charge of everything. We'll keep on praying for Carly and for all of you that take care of her. May God bless you all. Only the best is to come. TRUST! We do!
Love,
Claudia CAmpos

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the update. It sounds like Carly is in the care of some great doctors and that she will get all the attention and support in the world!

Much love,
Robin

KenM said...

My prayers and my family prayers are for your family.

Ken Micnerski

friend of Phil Nelson

Anonymous said...

Thanks for the update. I have no doubt that Carly is going to pull through this like a champ....after all she has the nelson-nunes blood flowing through her. We'll keep sending the positive vibes...

be well my friends,

bill

Anonymous said...

Brad, Christa and Carly - We are constantly thinking about all of you and wishing you the best. You are in our prayers daily. Thank you for providing this blog so that we can keep up with what is happening with Carly. You all have a great positive attitude, and that is what will get you through all of this. Love you guys, Dennis & Kathy Buchweitz

mayav said...

Brad, thank you for sharing the news and keeping everyone updated. We'll be thinking about Carly and sending positive thoughts your way on October 1st.
Thinking of you...
Maya

The Hunts said...

I will continue to pray for you,Christa,Carly, and all the caregivers working to help Carly.

Rob

Squish said...

She looks healthy and strong. She is blessed with parents to help guide her through this difficult journey.