Monday, February 14, 2011

Unexpected

Carly has been feeling better since her shunt surgery and is back at school again. She has also been smiling a lot more since the surgery and she loves playing with her stuffed animal friends. This we are very thankful for, but we also got some news today which is not as good. Carly’s most recent MRI that was taken last week shows what the team at UCSF believes to be recurrent tumor. They had noticed an area that had them concerned three months ago, but Dr. Gupta was hopeful that it was just scar tissue. The area grew in every dimension in the most recent scan which is indicative of tumor and not scar tissue.  The concerning area is pretty small now, about the size of a lima bean, but it has been growing slowly for several months.

There are a few options for treatment that range from radiation therapy, surgery or some type of chemotherapy.  Each has its own set of strengths and weaknesses which we will be reviewing with a range of specialists over the next few weeks. We will also get second opinions from some of the most respected centers around the US to ensure that all of the best minds are thinking of Carly.  We keep hoping that this area will just shrink away on its own, but we also have to be prepared for whatever Carly needs. I know she is in all of your thoughts and prayers, and she can use the extra strength and healing now as much as ever.

Love, Brad

34 comments:

Swampdragons said...

Wow, that is unexpected and difficult news. I'm hopeful the best minds come together to care for one amazing, strong little girl. We wish you the best. - Shanan and Josie

Anonymous said...

We're sending love to all of you. I'm sure its tough to get this news - but it sounds, as always, as if you have the right perspective, and are thinking positive thoughts : ) You're all in our thoughts.

Love,
The Horns

Meredith said...

I'm continuing to keep sweet Carly in my prayers. Sending you guys love. These are uncharted waters, but there is a host of hearts to back you guys up.

karen said...

We are hoping this lima bean shrinks away on it's own as well. Whatever treatment is ahead, team Carly will always be here to support and love you. Sending over lots of kisses to an incredible little girl.
Karen & Kevin
xo

Paige said...

I'm thinking healthy thoughts of a strong and vibrant Carly, knowing that she, and you, can tackle this challenge with Team Carly by your side.

Thrilled to hear that Carly is happy and enjoying school. Brings a much needed smile to my face tonight. xo

Anonymous said...

Hey B & C,

I know you are working with the best doctors and I am glad to read you will be getting a second opinion. Sending lots and love and strength to all three of you.

Love ya - The Shumans

Lani said...

oh guys, i am so sad to hear this news. my thoughts are with you and i've been thinking of you so much lately. sending some love and strength and huge hugs to get you through this. glad to hear she is enjoying school & her animals! so cute!
we love you -
Lani & Chris

tina said...

Team carly reporting for duty. We will be here to support lil c and you both every step of the way. Sending lots of love.

Anonymous said...

we are sending love and prayers and strength and whatever else you may need. i'm glad Carly will have the best minds in the field thinking hard about how to help her. we are envisioning a shrinking lima bean and a healthy Carly. Love you guys and your amazing little angel!,
sheila and keith

Anonymous said...

As always, thinking about you in these difficult times.... Sweet little Carly.. Lots of love, Cécile

Anonymous said...

You know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers every day. Dennis and Kathy

The Hunts said...

What a great picture of Carly!!! Seeing her smiling so big in the picture just warms my heart. Sounds like Carly has yet another hurdle to go over soon. No doubt you, Christa, and Carly have the courage and strength to clear the obstacle. Praying for you all!!

Rob

JerseyGirl said...

Focusing on this cute picture of Carly as I envision her brain tumor free. Down with the lima bean! Sending so much love and strength your way as you three overcome this next hurdle. ((HUGS))

Anonymous said...

I'm thinking of you three, and keeping you in my prayers. Much love to you.

Wolfgang Norton

Jennie said...

Carly is the strongest little girl we know! We continue to send you all lots of love!

robin said...

This lima bean doesn't stand a chance! Stay strong, and lots of love from Seattle!

robin

Nikkie said...

We're sending lots of love and good vibes your way
- the McBrayers

Chris George said...

We are sending our love to you guys...please give Carly a big hug for us.

Love,
Chris, Piper and Paige

Anonymous said...

positive thoughts going out to you 3. carly you are such a tough little cookie! i know you can show this lima bean tumor who is boss! love you guys!
sarah & matt

Anonymous said...

Sending lots of love and light little c's way. hoping that some abc disco will help operation shrink lima bean too. xoxo michelle

kate said...

sending lots of love and kisses to you three. your strength continues to amaze us all. team carly is here to kick the lima bean to the curb!
kate and kaveh

Anonymous said...

Thinking psoitive thoguths for Carly. Lots of love to all of you.

Jen Wagner said...

Oh boy. I am sure that little lump will be no match for Carly, especially when she has the two of you, all of us, and now a whole class full of friends cheering her on. Sending lots of love your way and hoping for some good news soon - Jen

Anonymous said...

Sending lots & lots of love to Carly, and you guys too!!!
Love, Jane, Chuck & Sammy

Laurel said...

I'm so sad to hear this news. But, I'm confident you & Christa will thoroughly research your options and make the best decision for Carly. Your strength and perseverance are inspiring!
Love, Laurel

Anonymous said...

Sending all our love to sweet little Carly. Praying for shrinkage of that Lima bean. You are all in my thoughts. Love, Julia and Mark

Jeri said...

Love the picture (it looks like Carly is using both hands), hate the news.
You're always in my thoughts and know that I'm here if I can be of help.
Jeri

Tooley said...

Sending you extra positivity and healing energy. Love, Tooley

lance said...

Team Carly is in full force! Sending you vibes of health and wisdom for the next step.

love,
Lance and Mark

Anonymous said...

So sad to hear this news. Will send prayers your way.

Tammy

Anonymous said...

I continue to keep you all in my thoughts and prayers. You are such wonderful parents for Carly.
she is lucky that you stay strong, positive, and continue to monitor all things for her. I wish all children could have advocates like you. Positive energy is being sent your way.
Kay Springer

Anonymous said...

Where's the Lemur? That is one sneaky stuffed animal. Waiting to pounce and induce more laughs! I love seeing Carly feel better and hope the best for her ongoing treatment.....Love, Kellie

Anonymous said...

She is Carly Braveheart. She is strong, she endures and moves forward. She inspires all of us and brings out the best in everyone who knows her or knows of her. She is her parents child.

Jack said...

God Bless Carly and give her ongoing strength to handle the new problem with whatever you guys uncover as the best approach to help your sweet little daughter get through this new challenge...Love and Best Wishes...-Jack*